Nothing ever is as simple as that. Whether we are talking about diets, cats, genitals, the oxford comma or your world view on weirdly shaped fruits, nothing is ever simple.
There are always shades of grey. The trick is to explore those areas in between.
Sometimes that will strengthen our resolve or views, other times it shows us the cracks from which new light will shine.
But never forget the shades are there and never stop exploring the many gradients in between.